Glad you found us! This site has one objective: to help you win the spiritual battle for purity, in every sense of the word. Society encourages us to throw away our virtue; the message sent out by the media is: "everyone's doing it!" We are here to prove that statement wrong! Come in, read some encouraging testimonies, chat with others who strive to remain pure, and reaffirm your belief that purity, sexual and otherwise, is not only possible, but totally worth it!

Friday, March 15, 2013

Think on These Things: Guys want you to wait!

Philippians 4:8     Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things (NIV).

Someone brought the group Anthem Lights and their tremendous song to my attention, and I just had to share it with you.  When you listen to the hearts of these young men, I hope it gives you the courage to stand strong in your commitment to purity.

Here's the song in full:

My dear sisters in Christ, you deserve to meet such a man; a man who has waited for you, prayed for you, and who trusts God to bring you together at the proper time.  It's so hard to wait, I know!  You get harrassed at school, you get left at home when others are going out, but it's completely worth it

At the same time, purity is available to everyone, whether you've made mistakes or not.  Jesus didn't leave us one opportunity to do things right, or be forever lost.  Just confess your sins to Him, ask His forgiveness, and then walk from this day forward in sexual purity.  Your future husband will appreciate your sacrifice.  You can still have a happily ever after. 

Have a great weekend!

Friday, March 8, 2013

Think on These Things: And The Winner Is...

Philippians 4:8     Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things (NIV).

Well, the results are in, and the winner is . . . SPENCER!  Thank you to all who participated, you made this an exciting giveaway.  Thanks also to Elizabeth Ludwig for her support of A&V.

Come back and see us again soon.  We've got more exciting "things" planned to share.

Have a great weekend, and God Bless!

Friday, March 1, 2013

Think on These Things: Mystery Novels by Elizabeth Ludwig!

Philippians 4:8     Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things (NIV).

Welcome back!  I'm so excited to share this week's "thing" with you.  Recently, I met Elizabeth Ludwig, a Christian mystery novelist, whose books are available at Lifeway, Barnes and Noble, Amazon, and just about any other book store.  She was such a blessing to meet and talk to, and because the idea of a Christian mystery novel was so intriguing to me, I asked if I could interview her for A&V.  Here's what Elizabeth has to say about herself and her latest novel, No Safe Harbor:

Please tell us a bit about yourself.

Well, I could give you the long version, but why do that when you can read all about me on my bio page ( The short version is much simpler…and probably more interesting. LOL!

Basically, I was just a kid who loved to read. I had a voracious appetite for books, and it was not unusual for my mother to catch me reading at two or three in the morning…on a school night! Since that got me into trouble, I took to reading with a small nightlight under the covers. My poor eyes! I’m surprised I can still see.

Anyway, fast forward twenty…um…thirty years, and that love of reading changed into a love of writing. I still daydream characters in my head, but now, that transfers onto paper.

And now, since I think it’s always fun to share secrets about oneself, here are five facts readers might not know about me:

  1. I am an avid football fan (Go Steelers!!). When I’m not cheering on my team, I’m thinking about cheering on my team.

  1. My kids call me a computer geek wannabe. I’m not good enough with techie stuff to actually do anything…just good enough to get in trouble.

  1. In high school, people called me a Drama Queen, but not because I was emotional and erratic. It was because I loved everything involving the theater.

  1. My dachshunds get me. They really, really get me.

  1. I married the sweetest, most romantic, loving man in the world. He tells me so all the time. J

What is your favorite Bible verse?  (Translation too, please) Why?

I always smile when I’m asked this, because my answer puzzles people. It’s Habakkuk 2:2-3. Are you scratching your head yet? Let me clarify…


Habakkuk 2:2-3 says this: Then the LORD answered me and said: “Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time; but at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry. (NKJV)


At a time when I was really questioning whether or not I was called to write, God gave me these verses. I’ve clung to them ever since, and I sign all of my books with them, mainly as a reminder to myself that I’m doing what God called me to do.

What was your inspiration to write No Safe Harbor?

Family members on both my side and my husband’s emigrated from Europe in the early 1900’s. Some of my ancestors were from Spain. My husband’s ancestors were from Holland, Ireland, and Germany. These brave men and women who risked everything in search of a better life were the inspiration for this story. I hope I’ve done them proud!

Have you visited Ireland?

I’ve never been to Ireland, but I hope to one day. My husband and I went to Europe in 1995. We got to see so many fascinating things! We spent two weeks traveling through parts of France and Germany. Now, my dream is to go back and continue our trek through Ireland and Scotland.

Is this considered a cozy mystery?

Though there are elements of mystery in the book, this is definitely not a cozy mystery. Cozies are usually more lighthearted, and have an element of humor built in that this story does not. For people who love suspense, however, this book should be right up their alley. From the first page to the last, I tried to construct a story that keeps the reader on the edge of their seat!

How much research did No Safe Harbor take?

I have to say, this book definitely required more research than any novel I’ve published so far. On top of all of the historical facts I could dig up from New York in 1897, I had to research Ireland and everything that was occurring during the same time period there. Thank goodness for the Ellis Island Foundation’s website. I found a lot of information there.

What are the most interesting facts that you learned while researching and writing No Safe Harbor?

I loved learning about Ellis Island—from its beginnings all the way to the role it plays in America today. For instance, did you know the scene near the end of No Safe Harbor, where a fire destroys the immigration station on Ellis Island, actually happened? Though no lives were lost, thousands of records were destroyed.

What was the most difficult aspect of writing this story?

More than anything, I really wanted to get the “feel” of the time period right. Also, I very much wanted to do justice to the thousands of people who have made the journey across continents in search of a better life. Added to that, it was very difficult to show the struggle of the Irish people objectively, without casting one side or the other as the bad guys. I hope my many hours of research helped me get the balance right.

What other new writing projects do you have on the horizon?

I have finished the second book in the Edge of Freedom Series, and am currently working on book three. Each of these books focuses on a different aspect of the struggle in Ireland, and how it translated to America. Overall, I am very excited to have been entrusted with this great project!

What message would you like your readers to take from reading No Safe Harbor? 

There’s a unifying message in all three of the books in the Edge of Freedom Series. It’s one that I hope will speak to everyone who reads them, but rather than tell you what it is, I’d like to show you from a line taken from one of the books:

“My dear, braw lad,” Cara whispered, “your faith was never in God. It was the church you followed, and the Fenians, not the Savior.”

Is there anything else you’d like to add?

Writers trying to break into the business often ask me what advice I would give. It’s simply this: if your goal is publication, great! But don’t be so focused on the goal that you forget to enjoy the journey you’re on while reaching it. There are some awesome lessons to be learned along the way, and great friends to be made…all of which you will miss if you attempt a shortcut. Trust God. His timing is always perfect.


You know what…I think that works for non-writers, too.


You can learn more about Elizabeth Ludwig, (and her 7 other novels) by visiting her blog, The Borrowed Book or her website, 
 And here's the best news:  Elizabeth is giving away a free signed copy of No Safe Harbor to one lucky Armed and Virtuous reader!  You have three opportunities to win.  Here's how to enter:
1.  Become a follower of this website
2.  Like our facebook page.
3.  Invite a friend to follow Armed and Virtuous
Then leave a comment on this post, letting us know that you've completed 1,2, or all three!  :)
The winner will be announced Friday, March 8th.  So, good luck, and have a great weekend!